从朋友听来的伤心事。
一个月前，朋友发现了男友一些不忠的举动。
当然，不是肉体出轨，而是思想出轨。
一个月后，朋友并没有因为这些小举动而离开她的男友；
当下，我问她：‘为什么？思想出轨有时比肉体出轨还恐怖，还恶心，而且不可原谅！’
‘...’
沉默-- 是我耐心等了2分钟的答案。
对这个答案，我想，我是理解的。
寂静的夜晚，只有冷气嗒啦嗒啦的声音伴着我的思绪，我很认真的想了想这个问题。
如果是我，我会怎样？
看着朋友从以前就对自己的外表不怎么自信的一个女孩，变得几乎已经变态得自卑。
猜疑，烦恼，妒嫉，成了这女孩的‘正常’情绪。
我想，我能理解她。
离不开是因为爱；
爱不下是因为害怕。
当一个人的情绪介于两个极端时，一些古怪的思想，行为便会产生了。
一天到晚都在问为什么，对男友的一些举动，说的一些话都变得非常敏感，而且很负面。顿时失去了所有的信任，刹那觉得对方很陌生。等等等等～
这时，我好想问问那个女孩的男友，‘既然你口口声声说爱她，为什么要做出这种会伤她的心和不尊重的事情呢？’
6 comments:
"离不开是因为爱
爱不下是因为害怕"
愛，
聼起來，讓人為之動容。
說出來，勝過海誓山盟。
但，
要單單純純的愛
要肆無忌憚的愛
要死心踏地的愛
原來一點都不簡單。
good luck to u buddy! to us actually. hahaha. ok to everyone.
是不简单，因为人心很复杂的。就连上帝创造的我们不能完全，彻底的了解自身的生理结构。
希望新的一年，大家好的桃花朵朵开，多点选择，或许就不会那么伤了。
I had a hard time understanding this.
haha~~
Anyway, men will stray in their thoughts once in a while.
Some are honest about it. Some choose to keep it quiet.
What would you prefer?
It is up to you, the woman.
Obviously, that man made the wrong choice because his woman was not ready for such honesty.
Either that or she was just looking for an excuse to leave him.
As for me, I do stray in my thoughts.
But I choose not to share it.
I know that my woman has got a lot on her mind & I know that she wont handle it well.
One day, when she is ready, I will share.
p/s: Thanks for your kind words to me the other afternoon. You made me feel so relieved. I have got so many doubts. Thank you.
jk: thanks for ur comment!i dun think she is finding excuse to leave him cos she nvr leave him, i think she is trying to find a v logic reason for her bf so tat she can let go easier.. Anyway, im glad tat u've spent time to understand this passage..hehe..n due to my bad memory,i cant recall wat i've told u tat is strong enuf to make u relieved from watever u r facing.however,im happy tat i manage to help u to certain extents..take k!
ah kam koko is right!!! hehe...
colby : yalar yalar~~ guys.. duh~~~
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